My pain is raw and fresh. I feel like the recently overturned soil in the middle of a field waiting to be filled in with the comfort of validation or, on the other hand, waiting for the toxicity of a chemical spill to seep in and overflow into the Earth. My pain is overwhelming. My… Continue reading Raw & Fresh
I talked about this on Instagram a few weeks ago but I haven't written about it. I am dating again (YASSS!) I am aware that I said I was taking a 6 month break but in true to me fashion, I decided to end that early around 3 months. You can read my original post… Continue reading I’m Dating
Have you ever been with someone and never felt more alone? I have been in several relationships that I would consider "serious." Sure, I am only 27 but I have been dating since I was 15 and every boy/man I dated I thought I was FOR SURE going to marry him. The thing is, within… Continue reading Alone, not Lonely
Recently (Yes, like 5 days ago) I decided that the long distance love thing wasn't working for me. When I think about a relationship or getting to know someone, I think about doing the most normal things together but they feel like magic. Like, going to the farmer's market or after sex Netflix binge watching.… Continue reading The Next 6 Months
Yeah, sooo people really seem to enjoy secrets about people. I can't blame you. I love them too. I want to know what makes someone relate to me, what do we have in common, what is our shared "thing". I don't shy away from being an open book, I am who I am. I am… Continue reading I still suck my thumb, I date black men and 3 other secret facts about me
Within the last year and a half, I had an ex boyfriend complete suicide, I broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years, my 7 year old beagle had to be put down, I resigned from a job I had for close to 4 years and I went through another break up. I am going… Continue reading Getting Through The Grief: Short Stories of Love and Death
Sexual trauma can be a variety of things. Sexual trauma can occur when you are coerced into sexual relations with someone you know. Sexual trauma can be molestation from a family member at a young age. Sexual trauma can be when a stranger rapes you. Sexual trauma could be when you are fighting with your… Continue reading 5 Things Nobody Tells You About Sexual Trauma Survivors
AWW. Also, stay tuned for a blog about "Why You Should Try Interracial Dating This Year" Sex is a touchy topic for a lot of people. For me, when a partner wants to talk about our sex, it can feel like I am being criticized for not pleasing him in the way that he wants… Continue reading Better Sex This Year: Six Sex Tips and How Behavior In The Bedroom Can Crossover
Before you read through the next 7 statements, make sure you read my experience with the MeToo movement I have PTSD. I was not diagnosed until February 2018. I lived with these symptoms for the better part of 10 years. Sex is about the other person and their pleasure, only. When you have early sexual trauma,… Continue reading 7 Statements on Early Sexual Trauma & The Impact on Adult Relationships
It is no secret that I do not like Donald Trump. I do not hold back from talking about politics and I do not agree with topics that are taboo. Talking about things you are passionate about can help other people see issues or things they may have never seen before. Do I talk about… Continue reading 3 Ways Trump in the White House is like an abusive relationship
