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I still suck my thumb, I date black men and 3 other secret facts about me

Yeah, sooo people really seem to enjoy secrets about people. I can't blame you. I love them too. I want to know what makes someone relate to me, what do we have in common, what is our shared "thing". I don't shy away from being an open book, I am who I am. I am… Continue reading I still suck my thumb, I date black men and 3 other secret facts about me

Dating/Sex · Mental Health

5 Things Nobody Tells You About Sexual Trauma Survivors

Sexual trauma can be a variety of things. Sexual trauma can occur when you are coerced into sexual relations with someone you know. Sexual trauma can be molestation from a family member at a young age. Sexual trauma can be when a stranger rapes you. Sexual trauma could be when you are fighting with your… Continue reading 5 Things Nobody Tells You About Sexual Trauma Survivors

Dating/Sex · Mental Health

Better Sex This Year: Six Sex Tips and How Behavior In The Bedroom Can Crossover

AWW. Also, stay tuned for a blog about "Why You Should Try Interracial Dating This Year" Sex is a touchy topic for a lot of people. For me, when a partner wants to talk about our sex, it can feel like I am being criticized for not pleasing him in the way that he wants… Continue reading Better Sex This Year: Six Sex Tips and How Behavior In The Bedroom Can Crossover

Dating/Sex · Mental Health

7 Statements on Early Sexual Trauma & The Impact on Adult Relationships

Before you read through the next 7 statements, make sure you read my experience with the MeToo movement I have PTSD. I was not diagnosed until February 2018. I lived with these symptoms for the better part of 10 years.  Sex is about the other person and their pleasure, only.  When you have early sexual trauma,… Continue reading 7 Statements on Early Sexual Trauma & The Impact on Adult Relationships

Dating/Sex · Mental Health

7 Important Steps To Take After Leaving An Abusive Relationship

  I am outspoken about abusive relationships and how easily people can find themselves in one. I have volunteered with women's shelters in the past and I would say it is a passion for me to help women (Yes I realize men can be victim's too). I like helping women to realize the relationships they… Continue reading 7 Important Steps To Take After Leaving An Abusive Relationship