Have you ever been with someone and never felt more alone? I have been in several relationships that I would consider "serious." Sure, I am only 27 but I have been dating since I was 15 and every boy/man I dated I thought I was FOR SURE going to marry him. The thing is, within… Continue reading Alone, not Lonely
Category: Dating/Sex
The Next 6 Months
Recently (Yes, like 5 days ago) I decided that the long distance love thing wasn't working for me. When I think about a relationship or getting to know someone, I think about doing the most normal things together but they feel like magic. Like, going to the farmer's market or after sex Netflix binge watching.… Continue reading The Next 6 Months
I still suck my thumb, I date black men and 3 other secret facts about me
Yeah, sooo people really seem to enjoy secrets about people. I can't blame you. I love them too. I want to know what makes someone relate to me, what do we have in common, what is our shared "thing". I don't shy away from being an open book, I am who I am. I am… Continue reading I still suck my thumb, I date black men and 3 other secret facts about me
Getting Through The Grief: Short Stories of Love and Death
Within the last year and a half, I had an ex boyfriend complete suicide, I broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years, my 7 year old beagle had to be put down, I resigned from a job I had for close to 4 years and I went through another break up. I am going… Continue reading Getting Through The Grief: Short Stories of Love and Death
5 Things Nobody Tells You About Sexual Trauma Survivors
Sexual trauma can be a variety of things. Sexual trauma can occur when you are coerced into sexual relations with someone you know. Sexual trauma can be molestation from a family member at a young age. Sexual trauma can be when a stranger rapes you. Sexual trauma could be when you are fighting with your… Continue reading 5 Things Nobody Tells You About Sexual Trauma Survivors
Better Sex This Year: Six Sex Tips and How Behavior In The Bedroom Can Crossover
AWW. Also, stay tuned for a blog about "Why You Should Try Interracial Dating This Year" Sex is a touchy topic for a lot of people. For me, when a partner wants to talk about our sex, it can feel like I am being criticized for not pleasing him in the way that he wants… Continue reading Better Sex This Year: Six Sex Tips and How Behavior In The Bedroom Can Crossover
7 Statements on Early Sexual Trauma & The Impact on Adult Relationships
Before you read through the next 7 statements, make sure you read my experience with the MeToo movement I have PTSD. I was not diagnosed until February 2018. I lived with these symptoms for the better part of 10 years. Sex is about the other person and their pleasure, only. When you have early sexual trauma,… Continue reading 7 Statements on Early Sexual Trauma & The Impact on Adult Relationships
3 Ways Trump in the White House is like an abusive relationship
It is no secret that I do not like Donald Trump. I do not hold back from talking about politics and I do not agree with topics that are taboo. Talking about things you are passionate about can help other people see issues or things they may have never seen before. Do I talk about… Continue reading 3 Ways Trump in the White House is like an abusive relationship
7 Important Steps To Take After Leaving An Abusive Relationship
I am outspoken about abusive relationships and how easily people can find themselves in one. I have volunteered with women's shelters in the past and I would say it is a passion for me to help women (Yes I realize men can be victim's too). I like helping women to realize the relationships they… Continue reading 7 Important Steps To Take After Leaving An Abusive Relationship
“Be His Peace” and other misogynistic popular statements
Let's just get right to it. The phrase "Be His Peace" is super popular on social media right now. The meme usually shows a woman and a man happily together but typically the woman is doting on the man in someway. The phrase stems from instead of being "crazy", you should be your mans… Continue reading “Be His Peace” and other misogynistic popular statements
