I wrote a blog post back in December 2018 Highly Functional and Mentally Ill: What You Don't Understand, besides any post about sex (go figure), this was one of my most popular blogs. In that post I wrote about hiding your condition, trying to keep it altogether with work and within relationships, how to spot… Continue reading Highly Functional and Mentally Ill: Coping Ahead
I talk a lot about feeling like I am frozen in time. I feel like my emotions are sometimes that of an adolescent girl. Sure, I feel like I am an adult, there is no doubt about that. But, when it comes to feeling alone, abandoned and emotional, I feel like a young teenager. I… Continue reading Part 2: What would I say to my 14 year old self if I could?
Recently (Yes, like 5 days ago) I decided that the long distance love thing wasn't working for me. When I think about a relationship or getting to know someone, I think about doing the most normal things together but they feel like magic. Like, going to the farmer's market or after sex Netflix binge watching.… Continue reading The Next 6 Months
Childhood sexual abuse, rape, incest and sexual coercion and all forms of sexual trauma impact us for the rest of our lives. What people don't understand is that it isn't just our sex lives that it affected. It is not being able to trust people. It is not being able to feel joy during sex.… Continue reading 10 Essential Tips: Healing From Sexual Trauma
I have PTSD. Not the kind that most people think about. I haven't been to a war. I haven't been in a car accident. I haven't watched a loved one die in front of my eyes. I have PTSD from sexual and relationship based trauma as well as from the abandonment I felt from being sent to boarding… Continue reading Parenting with PTSD: Parenting Through Fear
It is no secret that I do not like Donald Trump. I do not hold back from talking about politics and I do not agree with topics that are taboo. Talking about things you are passionate about can help other people see issues or things they may have never seen before. Do I talk about… Continue reading 3 Ways Trump in the White House is like an abusive relationship